Exams coming soon! Won't be posting in awhile... Meanwhile, read this thought-provoking article I found from The Star... enjoy :)
ONCE a professor asked his students: “Why do we shout in anger? Why  do people shout at each other when they are upset?” The students thought  for a while before one of them said: “We shout because we lose our  calm.”
 “But why shout when the other person is just next to you? Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice?”
 The students gave various answers, none of which satisfied the professor.
 Finally  he explained: “When two people are angry with each other, their hearts  distance. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each  other. The angrier they are, the louder they will have to shout to hear  each other through that great distance.”
 Then he asked: “What  happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but  talk softly. Why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance  between them is very small.
 “When they love each other even more,  what happens? They do not speak – they only whisper and get closer to  each other in their love.
 “Finally they do not even need to  whisper. They only look at each other, that’s all. That is how close two  people are when they love each other.”
 So, when you argue, do  not let your hearts get distant or say words that distance each other  even more, or there may come a day when the distance is so great you  will not find the path back to each other.